things are only racist, sexist, or offensive when it’s someone else doing it right? when you say that kind of thing or support that kind of system, it’s “just a joke”

sure, i tell jokes too. offensive ones. i buy into some of the “destructive social paradigms” you so vehemently bare your teeth at. one difference. i’m not a huge hypocrite! i never claim not to do those things. please stop.